There is no doubt that the movie The Secret had a profound effect on many people who watched it. I remember the flash of inspiration I felt that told me, at last, I know how to make my dreams come true! I thought I now know how to use the law of attraction.
(If you haven’t seen The Secret, I would urge you to do so. You can buy the DVD at Amazon and cheap used copies are usually available on ebay)
However, I remember vividly how my initial excitement soon turned to frustration. Negative thoughts entered my mind.
“It works for other people, but not me.”
“I’m frustrated I can’t always get it to work. Sometimes I can, sometimes I can’t. It’s very hit and miss. What am I doing wrong?”
“I think the universe must be working against me.”
“I’m trying extremely hard but still nothing is working out”
If this has happened to you, relax, you are not alone. The majority of people can not make the law of attraction work for them the first time. This is hardly a surprise. There are many things you have to practice many times before you succeed. For example, most of us need plenty of practice before we can drive a car properly.
The trouble is when you feel frustrated it is difficult to stay positive. And this has a knock on effect. Because when you fail to stay positive you start attracting negative things in to your life.
So here are some tips on how you can make the law of attraction work for you by thinking positive and without getting frustrated.
Allow Your Mind To Receive From The Universe
Ask a question and then allow your mind to receive an answer. Don’t keep asking again and again and again.
The universe is trying to respond to you but it can’t get a single thing trough to you because you are not allowing yourself to receive.
So have confidence and just think of your desires and leave them out there. Go away and trust that you will receive when the time is right.
You Will Need Patience
Remember, receiving takes time.
Unfortunately, many people give up just a few of steps before the finish line because They decide that if it is not working immediately, it will never work at all. Even worse are those who throw in more and more energy because they think that with more resources the results will come quicker.
This is like baking a cake and thinking that by doubling the temperature you will have the time it takes to cook. No, you will just burn the cake to ashes. Put simply, everything in the universe has a natural development time. This fact will not change no matter what resources you throw at it.
So the message here is, relax and be patient. As part of the universe, you are also subject to the laws of the universe and you cannot change the natural development time.
Remember this, and you will get over any frustration and avoid pushing yourself into a downward spiral of negativity.
Keep Learning
Like a child learning to swim, you need help and support.
Many people give up because they think that “The Secret” is the whole solution. That is simply not true. “The Secret” is just a small part to it.
Deciding that the law of attraction does not work just because you watched the movie a dozen times is ridiculous. It is the same as saying exercise does not help with weight loss when you also stuff yourself with fried foods and ice cream.
So actively search for new knowledge. Although the law of attraction is not an overnight delivery service, it will eventually deliver, if you do your part as well.
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